Sometimes in relationships, we hit a dry spell where the excitement is gone and not quite what it used to be. And if there's anything I've picked up by now, it's that guys absolutely love it when their ladies add some spice to the relationship.

One of the best ways to achieve this is to spice up what you wear into the bedroom. If you go to bed each night wearing a t-shirt and boxers, that could get boring for your man. Why not try some new sexy lingerie?

From my experience this has a 100-percent success rate of getting a man's undivided attention. Men love to get creative in the bedroom, and switching up your attire is a great idea.

A while back, I bought myself some leather lingerie and was just waiting for the perfect opportunity to use it. I finally decided to wear it under my work clothes, and when I came home I removed each article and put on a show for my boyfriend until he saw his surprise. He loved it, and keeps asking me to wear it again!

I'm also a fan of accessorizing my sexy lingerie with all sorts of favors and fun extras. Anything from a garter to sexy knee-high boots will do the trick. These items may not be for everybody, but if you're willing to try something new, these are a great idea.

Other than leather lingerie, my personal favorites are the very see-through lacy numbers. Although they cover you up, that view will definitely drive your lover absolutely wild.

Another idea is to start off with a very conservative area outfit, but have sexy lingerie underneath. Men love that librarian look. Try wearing a suit and glasses, and tie your hair up. Then when he least expects it, untie your hair, remove your glasses and undo your suit.

Reveal your bottom layer, and he won't be able to keep his hands off of you. And to keep the good times rolling, change it up every once in a while. Don't use the same sexy outfit every night.

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